and separation. Parenting plans in Washington set out the residential schedule for the parents and the children, custody, the decision-making authority of the parties, the dispute resolution steps when differences occur, limitations and restrictions, etc. If there are negative factors present such as domestic violence, substance abuse, or other issues which affect the overall health of the family unit, Child Protective Services (CPS) could be involved in a case in order to address problems in the family. A guardian ad litem (GAL) might be appointed to investigate the parents and negative accusations and make a recommendation to the court as to the parenting plan. In Pierce County, three names of GALs are randomly computer generated on a strike list. Both sides will strike one name and whoever remains on the list will be appointed GAL. The cost is limited and reasonable. However, this varies by county. GALs in King County can charge retainers of $7,000 to $10,000 and $350 per hour or more. Sometimes a party or the court may motion for a parenting evaluation to determine the appropriate primary parent. A word to the wise, the emotional well-being of children is paramount to the court. The best interests of the children should be the primary concern during any court action. If you are doing anything which hurts your children get help. There are parenting coaches, counselors, books, and classes all designed to help you and your children transition to your new life positively.

Parenting Plans can be shared week on and week off, alternate weekends and one-half of all breaks from school, school year with one parent and all summer with the other or any plan agreed to by the parties ordered by the court. The court does not know your children like you know your children, if you can work out an arrangement and schedule by agreement, mediation or with a parenting specialist it is far better than arguing in court.